Migraine Awareness Month #28: Lights, Camera, Action

Pick a movie character you can identify with, talk a bit about them and why you identify with them.

Buffy the Vampire Slayer. I immediately knew Buffy would be my response to this prompt as I’ve frequently marveled that being a vampire slayer isn’t all that different than having chronic migraine.

Fundamentally, Buffy is upbeat and positive as she faces inconceivable evil day after day. She is sometimes worn down by the weight of her responsibility, but Buffy always manages to face the fearsome world. Finding the bright side to the frustrations, disappointments and agony of migraine keeps me going. A day in bed with a migraine attack is a chance to read a novel. The storm that brings migraine triggers also has spectacular lighting and smells wonderful. A day without a migraine attack is a cherished gift. As loath as I am to admit it, the cliche is true — having chronic migraine has taught me to live life to the fullest. Likewise, there’s no doubt that Buffy seizes the day.

That’s not to say that Buffy is never annoyed by being the “chosen one.” She is often frustrated that her duties as the Slayer interfere with life as a normal teenage girl. I’m not saving the world every day, but my life is far from typical. Like Buffy, I’d love to go to school or work and hang out with friends without an outside force constantly interfering. Monsters literally crash through walls to interrupt Buffy’s normal life; my monsters are more figurative.

Perhaps the strongest similarity is that although Buffy is defeated repeatedly, she continues to fight the forces of evil and always wins. No matter how often I want to give up, I continue pushing through the migraine attacks, day after day. Surrender is simply not an option.

What movie or television character do you most identify with?

National Migraine Awareness Month is initiated by the National Headache Foundation. The Blogger’s Challenge is initiated by www.FightingHeadacheDisorders.com.

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  • Miss Kim
    7 years ago

    I identify most with Carrie, the original movie. She tries to fit in with everyone around her but secretly is very different. I try to hide my chronic migraines especially from my coworkers but the intense pain can get in the way when I forget things or slur my words. I have to make jokes so they don’t wonder or joke about what’s wrong with me. Some of my friends know about my migraines but they seem to get tired of it which fills me with rage because they ask me “how are you feeling today” and when I try to keep it light and sweet they know I’m not telling the truth and beg me to tell them…when I start to tell them, they ignore me and change to another topic. I then feel the hurt and rage Carrie does at the end of the movie. Of course not to bring upon “rath” to my friends but the inner cruelty that they create for me and the feeling of feeling alone again. I’m so glad I found this website where I know others know what I’m going through…

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