Migraines Made Me Stronger – Steel Magnolias

Migrane Awareness Month
Today’s prompt/topic for the Migraine and Headache Awareness Month Blog Challenge is: Steel Magnolias: “That which does not kill us makes us stronger”: In what ways are you stronger as a result of living with Migraine or another Headache Disorder?

My father always said that, although it made me a bit more difficult, he was glad I had a strong stubborn streak. That stubborn streak has served me well in dealing with Migraines because being stubborn is part of what kept me from accepting answers that were useless.

There are several ways in which I’m stronger as a result of living with Migraine disease. This applies both to medical issues and life issues.

Medical issues:

  • Doctors and other medical personnel don’t frighten me. Nor do hospitals. I can hold my own, firm in knowing that patients have rights, and I’m in charge of my health and my health care.
  • Living with Migraines and the lack of knowledge and understanding common among so many doctors made me stronger about educating myself and searching out truly good doctors of all kinds. My family doctor welcomes questions; talks WITH me not AT me; and isn’t afraid to say, “I don’t know. Let me find out.” My Migraine specialist is the same way. If he weren’t, we’d part ways, and I’d look for a new Migraine specialist.
  • I can deal with family illnesses and medical emergencies more easily than the rest of my family. It’s not that they don’t bother me; they do, but I’m fine until it’s all over. Then, when everyone is all right, I can deal with my own responses to it.

Life issues:

  • The stigma associated with Migraine has taught me that, ultimately, I have to live with and like myself. If other people can’t accept me, that’s their problem, not mine. People are free to accept me or just go away. No, this still isn’t easy, but it’s doable, even when it applies to family members.
  • Most of the time, I can try to educate clueless people, and just walk away from those who won’t learn.
  • Living with Migraine, especially my chronic periods, has made me more compassionate toward other people.

In what ways are you stronger as a result of living with Migraine? Please post a comment and share with us.

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