AlyAdair,
I'm sending you good vibes. I'm terrified of what happened to you happening to me. I'm self-employed — I have been for 13+ years now. But since the migraines, which have come on and gotten progressively worse with perimenopause, I feel debilitated. I've lost work (not due to the migraines) and have not picked up more (due to the migraines). I'm getting extremely depressed and that's just a downward spiral that I feel only exacerbates the migraines — or is it the other way around? What's worse, I'm guilt-ridden because while I do have symptoms every day, now that I take magnesium, I'm more of a constant prodrome sufferer — I don't get the screaming pain so many others here suffer, but I'm hyper-sensitive to light, sound and smell, get blurry vision, brain fog, verbal disturbances, nausea and neck pain constantly. And then there's the fatugue. I actually feel guilty that I don't feel worse or have huge pain, because it seems like a constant "almost migraine" and I feel like I should be able to function through that... which I CAN, but only on a very low level. Like laundry. :-/