I've been married for just over a year. I suffer from chronic migraines, and just recently have been suffering from IBS like symptoms (currently undergoing tests). Due to both of these conditions, I spend a majority of my time in bed. I still clean the house as needed, cook meals when I can, do dishes etc.. However my husband is losing compassion for me (his words). He doesn't feel like I'm doing enough to help myself, and in a way, blames me for my poor health. I'm always trying new meds, vitamins, accupuncture, massage, chiropractic etc.. But it's never enough for him. he was aware of my health before getting married, but neither of us expected it to be this bad (as my condition has worsened since marriage). I was just wondering if anyone else's spouse has had these thoughts? What did you do to cope and get past this bump in the road? Aside from this, we have a healthy relationship, good communication etc.. But this is the one thing that we always seem to come back fighting about. I feel like I'm doing everything, and he doesn't think I'm doing enough. I'm just so drained and I need advice!