"I am so very thankful for this community. I sincerely hope for only my sake that someone can help me. My husband of 28 years has almost no patience nor compassion. He never really ever did. Before we were empty nesters, my kids would help me when I needed it. Also, how I was & did I need anything. My husband ignores me. I’m at a loss. We’ve tried counseling. He needs a checklist - to do list. Please help me. "