Husband is living with cancer and we have not been sexually active for the last five years. We have tried but with little success. I do not have a problem with it. I'm so gratefull that he is alive and getting better. He is quite active in his life and in our family...we love him so much...We have 9 grands and 2 great grands from 3 children and all are blessed. I believe that God took that desire from me so that I would be a rock for my husband...not many women would have been faithful and never once complain or add to the male-mental-frustration....Could this be the cause of complex migraine for me. I was diagnosed a few months ago and on Toperimate and illin' daily