txrungirl
"I am so very thankful for this community. I sincerely hope for only my sake that someone can help me. My husband of 28 years has almost no patience nor compassion. He never really ever did. Before we were empty nesters, my kids would help me when I needed it. Also, how I was & did I need anything. My husband ignores me. I’m at a loss. We’ve tried counseling. He needs a checklist - to do list. Please help me. "
I hear how difficult it is living with the lack of support and compassion from you husband, txrungirl. It can make life with migraine even more challenging. As you mentioned he works well with lists, I thought this article might be helpful for your husband if he is receptive to reading it:
https://migraine.com/blog/helpful-tips-partners-spouses/
You are not alone having migraine take a toll on your marriage. Do you and your husband continue to attend counseling? Please know we are always here to listen when you need support or a safe space to vent. Wishing you a gentle day. ~Allyson (Migraine.com team)