Hi. I saw your post & now that you updated it so recently, will go ahead & respond.
The first thing that happened re my driving was that, I had to leave so early in the morning to go to work that it was still dark & the road to work was 2 lanes. So, the oncoming traffic’s headlights were starting migraines. My husband had to bring me to work & pick me up, because I was having to leave early, due to the migraines.
But then, as time passed, I realized that, even before I had pain, I was getting symptoms that I was going to get a migraine, I suppose that they might be called Aura, I don’t know. No neurologist ever said as much. But, what happens is, I start acting strangely, & I don’t even realize that it’s because I’m getting a migraine. So, I have a very short fuse, no patience. And, because of that, I do stupid things, like go, when I should wait. Things I would NEVER do normally. I’m just not thinking clearly. I THINK that my mind is already getting cluttered by the migraine, but, the pain hasn’t presented itself yet. I know, it sounds a bit crazy, but, it’s not. I also stutter, which I’ve never, ever done, before I had migraines. And, I only do that when I’m either getting one or have one. My balance is off, I’m very stumbly. It looks like I’m drunk. I’m not. It’s part of the “aura” or the migraine. Anyway, back to your original question. I had to ask myself, do I feel safe on the road? Would I like to be on the road, diving, knowing that someone who had the symptoms that I do, was also on the road? The answer to both questions was a resounding NO!!
So, that was it for me. Believe me, I HATE it. I HATE being dependent on others for rides. I’ve had my drivers license since I was 16, & I’m going to be 72 in May. It’s AWFUL, & is a whole subject of discussion in itself. But, I am confident that I am doing the RIGHT THING. Unless or until I can find something that will reliably relieve me of the migraines, which, despite trying all the injectable CGRP meds , acupuncture, Botox & just about everything else out there (other than Tryptans, which I can’t take because I’m on anticoagulants & have had multiple blood clots,) I continue to have some degree of migraine 25 days a month. Sometimes I have VERY bad ones which put me in bed 24 hours that last 3-5 days at a stretch. So, if I’m not having a run like that, I count myself fortunate & am grateful.
Anyway, I hope I may have helped you.
Oh, btw, I did have to quit my job , & retire a couple of years early because I was out of sick leave & other leave & because it was a Union environment, the administration was going to have to start disciplinary proceedings. After 40 years of perfect record as an RN, there was NO WAY I was going to let that happen. I applied for & received Disability Compensation until it was time for my retirement. I had no problem getting that, I think the reason it was no issue was that everything was very well documented, as far as the migraines were concerned. For example, my employer tried to make my workplace more conducive for me, by putting a kind of a tent over my computer screen. It didn’t help, but, efforts were made, on both sides. I wish you all the best.