Hi sweetpain2,
Thank you for reaching out and being part of the Migraine.com discussion forum - we're glad you're here!
I'm so sorry things are so rough for you right now. I do understand how hard it is to live with daily chronic head and neck pain.
Something I don't think doctors spend enough time on is the fact that it can take up to 90 days before we see an improvement in our migraine frequency and severity when we start new medications. During this time potential side effects may lessen as our body adjusts to the new medications. The thing is if we don't give each medication a fair trial we'll never know which one would have been the "one" to work. Does that make sense?
By any chance do you take something on a daily or near daily basis to help with the pain? We can get ourselves into another problem called medication overuse headache or moh if we take migraine medications and/or pain medications, whether they are over-the-counter or prescription, more than two to three days week. The thing is if we are in an moh cycle our migraine attacks will be more difficult to treat and we can end up in an endless cycle of pain that too is hard to break. I've been here and while moh is not pleasant it can be addressed. Let me share this information with you on moh; https://migraine.com/living-migraine/stop-rebound-headaches/.
A word on doctors if I may. I started seeing yet another "true" migraine/headache expert in August. I wasn't thrilled but something had to be done. I can safely say I think I'm making progress. I'll never be pain free, but have seen a reduction in migraine attack pain. So that's something! My point here is that even if you've seen a few of these experts, it may be worth seeing another one - they are not created equal!!
Neurologists may be fine doctors but have a hard time being experts in one area because they treat so many different conditions such as stroke, epilepsy, multiple sclerosis, Parkinson's and others. These "true" migraine/headache doctors are board certified in headache medicine which is different than being certified in neurology and usually treat one condition all day, every day - migraine and headache disorders. When you get a chance take a look at this articles on how these doctors are differnt and how to find one; http://migraine.com/blog/how-are-migraine-specialists-different/ and https://migraine.com/blog/really-find-headache-specialist/.
I hope this helps, let me know what you think,
Nancy