Hi melindas,
Thank you for your post. I'm sorry to hear you are having such a difficult time right now. Let's see what information I can give you that may help.
Something to keep in mind when we start new medications is that it can take up to 90 days before we see a reduction in our migraine frequency and severity. Also during this time potential side effects can lessen as our body adjusts to the new medication. The thing is if we don't give each medication a fair trial, we'll never know which one would have worked for us. Does that make sense?
I'm happy to hear you have a compassionate doctor, it's so important to have a team that is well educated in migraine and headache disorders. Is he board certified in headache medicine by any chance? This is different than being board certified in neurology.
You may want to talk to your doctor about a steroid dose pack to break this nasty migraine cycle - this works well for many of us. Another option for intractable (not responding to medications) migraine are IV infusions. When I have a nasty cycle that won't break, my doctor gives me an infusion of magnesium sulfate, fluids and a few shots of pain medication. This article has some alternatives you may want to discuss with your doctor; https://migraine.com/blog/alternatives-to-the-er/.
Is there any chance you are taking something every day, or nearly every day to relieve this pain? One problem we can unintentionally get ourselves into is called medication overuse headache, or moh. MOh, which was formerly called rebound, can occur if we take pain relievers and/or migraine medications, whether they are over-the-counter or prescription, more than two to three days a week. If we are in an moh cycle our attacks will be more difficult to treat and we can end up in a daily cycle of pain. I've been there and it's not pleasant, but we can combat it. Here is information on how to avoid this; https://migraine.com/blog/help-how-can-i-not-overuse-migraine-medications/.
I hope this helps, please keep me posted,
Nancy