Too Sick to Voteš
Iām quite depressed today because I want to vote. But Iām feeling much too sick and weak to stand in line, and the lines are long here this year.
I wonāt bring politics into this page. Iām simply discouraged about how often I kinda have to re-discover my lowwwww level of functioning.
The process of getting an absentee ballot involved about three steps that I just never managed to fully get to.
Now Iām left with the shame and embarrassment of not voting this year.
It just brings into stark awareness the fact that I AM sick every day. Every day. Every single day, to some degree or another. The absentee ballot was on a loooong to-do list that always grows faster than it shrinks.
Now Iām beating on myself: āI should have known Iād be sick on voting day!ā āI should have gotten that absentee ballot done! It was important to me!ā etc., etcā¦
Itās just another one of those days of this illness that feels lousy. Another day of self blame and anger and grief. I thought there might be others going through this.
Thanks,
Kateš·
Hi
I hear how frustrated you are in not being able to vote. Being chronically ill is exhausting for sure and can beat us down. We understand and are here for you. You have to do what you have to do in order to make it through the day without making yourself sicker.
This is a safe, non-judgmental zone and I'm sure you're not alone in having a difficult time with this.
Try to give yourself a break! Sending you a huge virtual hug! Nancy Harris Bonk, Patient Leader/Moderator (team member)
I'm so glad you're feeling less stressed - a bit of space and perspective helps immensely! So glad you feel better, and so glad you're here in the community - we've got you! Warmly, Tracy (Team Member)
I'm happy to hear you are feeling less stressed and received additional support from a friend. Community and support are so important.
Pain free wishes heading your way, Nancy Harris Bonk, Patient Leader/Moderator (team member)
Thinking of you this morning, Kate. Stuff happens! Don't be ashamed -- it's normal to assume we can do certain things, only to have life throw us a curve ball. Not sure where you are, but in my state, anyone can vote by mail. Super convenient and you get your ballot weeks before the election, so there's plenty of time. Maybe this would be a good option for you. Hugs! -Melissa, team member
