Misunderstandings Effect Living Situation
Hello. I'm posting because this is the only place I feel like there might be someone who understands.
I'm exhausted with having to tell people I'm in pain. I live with my husband and his parents, and things are coming to a head with them because of my illness.
Apparently, because I'm someone who pushes through and doesn't lock myself in my room every time I'm in pain, my pain doesn't exist. I couldn't possibly be having a "real" migraine because I was dancing earlier (to forget/distract from my pain). I'm just emotionally manipulating my husband by telling him my actual pain status.
Looking for advice
I don't know what to do, I have absolutely no control over the situation I live in. No job, can barely eat properly, and also have seizures, autism, and fibromyalgia (which apparently also doesn't exist in general). So I find it extremely difficult to be employed for more than a month before everything flares up again. I'd like to apply for disability but I have no idea how to get all of my medical records. I'm hitting a wall.
Thanks for reading.
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