Hi GoatLady,
Thank you for your question and being part of the Migraine.com discussion forum.
I'm sorry to hear you are having a rough time with your head pain. Are you taking Topamax in a split dose? Taking this medication in a split dose (in the morning and at bedtime) has shown to be more effective and fewer side effects. Here is more information on Topamax dosing; https://migraine.com/migraine-treatment/topamax/dosage/.
Are you by any chance taking something daily, or near daily to help relieve your head pain? We can unwittingly create another problem called medication overuse headache, moh, which was formerly called rebound if we take pain relievers and/or migraine medications, whether they are prescription or over-the-counter, more than two to three days a week. The thing is if we are in an moh cycle, our migraine attacks will be more difficult to treat and we can end up in a daily cycle of pain that too is hard to break. Here is information on moh; https://migraine.com/blog/help-how-can-i-not-overuse-migraine-medications/
Contrary to their commercials, Excedrin Migraine is not a good daily option and can create moh fairly quickly. It sounds like you may need to find a doctor who is a bit more knowledgeable about migraine. Neurologists may be fine doctors but have a hard time being experts in one area because they treat so many different conditions such as epilepsy, multiple sclerosis, stroke, Parkinson's and others. There are doctors who are true experts in migraine and headache disorders and are board certified in headache medicine, which is different than being certified in neurology. We have information on how these doctors are special and how to find one; http://migraine.com/blog/how-are-migraine-specialists-different/ and https://migraine.com/blog/really-find-headache-specialist/.
I hope this helps, keep me posted on how you are doing,
Nancy