Hi Anthony- so glad you wrote back. So, yes, keeping a journal is a great idea to help uncover patterns and potential underlying triggers that may be setting off your attacks. Doing so may even help you unearth that some triggers create certain (less or more severe) types of attacks. It's a little more tricky for you to dedicate yourself to keeping a diary since your attacks are so few and far between. Still, if you are wanting to more fully understand what's going on, it would be worth a try for sure. This article may prove interesting for you: https://migraine.com/living-migraine/detective-triggers
As to your desire to see a neurologist, as I mentioned before we do encourage those with migraine to seek care from migraine specialists as these doctors are more specifically trained in the complex neurological condition that is migraine. They are often more up to date when it comes to types of treatments and changes in the field. Here is a link to migraine specialists across the US (there is an unfortunate shortage of these types of doctors, but it would still be worth looking). If you cannot find a migraine specialist, seeking a neurologist who specializes in pain medicine/management would be another great choice. https://migraine.com/blog/the-mrf-directory-of-headache-and-migraine-specialists
Lastly, regarding your question as to why the potential uptick in migraine frequency but difference in quality of pain, this is a question best asked of your doctor. I will say that we hear of this type of evolution frequently among members of our community. Sometimes due to external factors (diet, stress, lack of sleep, weather shifts). and also sometimes to things occuring internally (aging, hormonal shifts). It would behoove you to gain clarity over what is triggering the attacks in order to try to avoid those things (if they can be avoided). Of course some triggers cannot be avoided (such as shifts in the weather).
Please let us know what other questions you have or reflections you'd like to share. We are here for you as you work to figure this out. Thinking of you. Warmly- Holly (migraine.com team).